When to Ask Her Out Over Text

Ask when the exchange feels comfortable, she is participating, and you have enough context to suggest something specific.

You do not need weeks of texting

A long pre-date chat can create false familiarity. If the conversation is going well, it is reasonable to suggest meeting relatively early.

Make the invitation specific

“Want to get coffee Saturday afternoon?” is easier to answer than “We should hang sometime.”

If she is busy

Someone who wants to meet will often help find another time. If the answer stays vague repeatedly, avoid pushing.