How Long Should You Text Before Meeting?

There is no universal number of messages or days. The better question is whether there is enough mutual comfort to make a simple plan.

Meet before building a fantasy

Long text exchanges can create an image of someone that real-life chemistry does not match.

Safety and comfort matter

Some people want more conversation first. A public meeting, clear plan, and independent transport can make a first date easier.

If momentum disappears

Repeatedly postponing without proposing an alternative usually means you should stop pushing.